A little bit of self talk

Hello, so today’s post is something that I would write in my journal but I thought I’d post it on here just incase, I don’t know someone else feels the same and wants to know they’re not alone or just want to have a insight on me and how I feel day to day. It’s nothing major it’s just I have a lot of negative thought towards myself. I’m going through a time where I’m really lacking self confidence, In me as a person, in my body and recently my blog. 

I’m never feeling like what I do is good enough and that I’m going to fail, even if everyone around me is telling me different. It’s not an attention thing like it’s really not. 

My weight and body is something I’ve had a problem with for as long as I can remember, don’t get me wrong I never judge people on their size I would never look down on someone because they’re not societies view of skinny. But when it comes to myself I’m really self conscious about it, I’ll break down because I’ve eaten a bag of crisps and I think they’re going to make me fat. I’m not fat but that’s how I view myself no matter how much o try not to. 
The lack of confidence in my blog is new. I love blogging it’s one of my passions but lately I’ve been feeling like nothing I post it interesting, no one wants to read it. It makes me sad because I try hard but then I can’t think of anything to write about. I hope i am writing interesting stuff for all of you. I like it when all comment so I can interact with you all. 
All I want to say it that having no self confidence is something that is a real struggle in my life and anyone else’s who has it too. They are days where you feel confident and it’s not necessarily a constant thing but when those days hit it’s hard. 
Sorry for the negative post, I just wanted to get it out there. I didn’t do this to bring any attention to myself I’m really not like that. If you’ve felt the same as me just know you’re not alone! If anyone ever wants advice, help or just a chat, all emails are welcome at fxshionbusiness@outlook.com I will always get back to you! 

p.s this is my other email because I don’t feel comfortable putting my more personal main email on here yet but both are linked to my laptop and come up as a notification!


Sincerely, S x

 

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Blog Goals // 2016

Before NYE I was thinking about my general resolutions and goals for the new year. It made me think about what I wanted for my blog too because you’ve got to have plans right? Otherwise there’s no point in doing it. I’ve seen a few people do a blog goals post so I thought I’d share mine with you!

My main goal is to reach a wider audience, this isn’t for any fame reasons just purely because I’ve always wanted to have a wide range of people who I comunicate, I love reading the comments that are posted and I love helping people out so the wider the audience the more I can do this!

Another goal would be to make my post as interesting and creative as I can, I want to make sure that people want to read the post rather than seeing and scrolling bye, I want to be able to relate to everyone who reads it. 

I guess I mainly just want to improve all aspects to make it a bigger,more interactive place, I really hope I can do this because my blog means a lot to me!

I also want to know what your blog goals are! Share them below! 

(If you don’t have a blog then share some of your general goals for this year!)

Sincerely, S x

2 Things a Love about Christmas 

Hello everybody! S here, with 2 days until Christmas it’s time for my post on 2 things a love about Christmas. This is a hard one because I like so many things about this time of year but here we go!

1.  I actually really enjoy wrapping presents, I know it’s seems weird but to me it’s calming and it makes me happy knowing that someone will receive a gift that hopefully they love! It’s great!

2. Family time -soppy I know, but my family don’t really spend much time together and so on Christmas when we’re all opening presents and when we all sit round the table to eat it just makes me really happy!

What are your favourite things about Christmas or around Christmas time? I want to know to comment below! 

Sincerely, S x

Good Morning!

Good morning everybody, just a friendly remember to keep smiling, even if you don’t really feel like it because smiling and having a positive frame of mind can make the day a whole lot better -and easier! If you look at everything in a more positive way and not in a negative way, no matter what’s going on in your life you will feel a lot better! Don’t forget your smile can effect others too! 

Keep smiling, you deserve to be happy:) 

Sincerely,S x

How to make someone smile :)

Hey guys! S here, so i thought i should do a how-to post but decided not to do a typical one.

I think happiness is something important that everyone sure think about, especially others’. Here’s a few ways t make someone else smile.

  1. Compliments, saying something as simple as ‘you look nice today’ can make someone smile for the whole day. Compliments seem like tiny things but they really do go a long way.
  2. Smile, smiles are contagious, if you smile at someone and show your happiness it’s likely that happiness will spread and others will smile too!
  3. Help, offering to help also makes someones day, showing them that there’s always someone there who cares. Even if it’s just holding the door for someone.
  4. Converse, it’s simple enough to just have a conversation with someone, say hello, ask them about their day. It helps!

These are just a few, but there are many ways to make something smile! Comment below if you have some ideas yourself!

Spread the smiles everyone! 🙂 🙂

Sincerely,S x